The twin flame process
Traditionally in the twin flame constellation there is a so called “chaser” and a “runner”. The “chaser” is a person who normally is perfect when it comes to dealing with the female principle, which is the soft, passiv , emotional side. But the male principle, which is about active, taking action, say no to others, using you mind, is not developed that good.
The “runner” tends to be driven only by the male principle, which is the mind. Dealing with love and emotions seems to be impossible, because this side was never really developed and hurt. He tends to run from his feelings.
The dynamic begins with the escape from the “mind”, who, after this amazing meeting, loses more and more control of his feelings, which is a total threat in his world.
He rejects his twin flame more and more, sometimes even gets insulting, just to keep control and not to be vulnerable.
He starts building up a huge wall against his twin flame.