The attraction you feel when you meet your twin flame is out of this world. There is no hiding from it. After the twin flames first connect, one of them begins to run from the deep love and the relationship falls apart.
There are some reasons why this happens:
• First of all, the connection twin flames share is so deep and intense, the ego (the false self of us, we created to secure us from the pain we don’t want to feel again) immediately rises up.
Deep wounds from the past emerge and make it almost impossible for the twins to get along.
Ideally, the twin flame who was left behind starts to heal the wounds and feelings which came up
with the departure of her twin. When the healing is accomplished, the foundation for a harmonious relationship is laid.
• Your twin flame is the direct mirror of yourself. This means he has no other choice then to mirror you directly, where you stand in life and as a person.
For example, if you still have the wound of being left behind inside you and you have a deep fear of being left, your twin has no other choice then mirroring the wound.
On a higher level, this is the gift he has for you, so that you can heal yourself.
I know it is a tough pill to swallow, because you feel hurt and they often treat you very unfair, but it is very beneficial to see the big picture and forgive.
• Another reason why twin flames separate is that fact that us humans can comprehend things in their depth when we know the opposite.
We are born into a world of duality. There is an opposite to everything. Light and dark, hot and cold.
This helps us to grasp what we are. In order to deeply understand what happiness is, it is a huge help for us to know sadness.
When it comes to twin flames, it is the loss and the distance which makes us comprehend this once in a lifetime love.